The cuckold lifestyle appeals to a broad range of couples, some are seeking to add some extra spice to their marriage whilst at the other end of the spectrum it offers the wife her only option for a regular sex life. All are equally valid motivations for adding a new man to your relationship and can be very rewarding.

Whilst we instinctively tend to believe that this lifestyle is founded on male inadequacy the reality is often far more complex. Nearly all wives find that an experience with a guest male is not only a tremendous thrill but greatly enhances their relationship with their official partner.

The cuckold lifestyle is sometimes criticised for being anti-marriage, yet nothing could be further from the truth. We are very much pro-marriage, it is only the role of sex in the marriage we take a non-conformist view on. The husband's cuckolding very often brings him closer to his spouse.

Of course cuckolding overturns everything about male/female relationships that we have been conditioned to believe since birth. We see it as a celebration of the natural superiority of female sexuality which can bring much joy to all involved. The three-way interaction between the bull, the wife and the cuckold is what makes this lifestyle so delicious and compelling to us.

We recommend a long term arrangement with one man rather than just casual encounters with several. Our suggest is that the husband is present, naked and wears a chastity device when his wife meets her lover. Remember though that the choice is yours.

The word cuckold is a derivation of cuckoo, an allusion to the female cuckoo's promiscuous mating habits and her habit of leaving eggs in other birds’ nests.

What do you mean by the cuckold lifestyle?

With modern cuckolding the husband is fully aware and tolerates his wife having sex with other men, often encouraging her to do so.

With many couples the wife does not merely have affairs and/or promiscuous sex with others but forms a committed relationship, which can be monogamous, with a third-party male. He is often chosen primarily for his sexual prowess hence the term "bull" to describe him. Obviously opening your marriage to a third party male is not something that should be done without much thought and, like any relationship, it will need much effort and consideration from all parties to make it work. Mutual trust and a close bond are essential for a couple contemplating a cuckold marriage.

When a cuckold relationship really works it can be very rewarding, strengthening a couple's commitment to each other and bringing them closer together.

The typical cuckold husband

A weak physique, under-developed genitalia, a meek demeanour - the age old stereotype is definitely no longer accurate. There are many reasons why men allow their wives to cuckold them and it is not purely concerned with their ability as a lover or the size of their sexual organs.

Many men fantasise about watching their partner make love with an attractive man and find they enjoy having a partner who is attractive to other men and who enjoys her sexuality.

The typical cuckoldress

She will enjoy the dominance that expressing her sexuality with her chosen lover gives her over her husband. She will enjoy having her husband who supports her in her pursuit of quality sex and is selflessly committed to her. She has the best of all worlds - a husband who loves her and an expert lover to satisfy her physical needs.